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The Culture of Doing, as a prerequisite to Belong and Connect, When we are raising our kids, or even when we remember our childhood, so much of it is based on just learning who we want to be, and trying to learn to do all that how can we become that, or we just unconsciously…

Regulation is a very common word around the media right now, and especially about nervous system regulation, but what does it mean in our daily life to have regulators that swirl this regulation in our bodies or just let our body regulate itself that it knows to do very well?. Have you felt a breeze…

The Intimate Men : Men who Wear the Cape of Vulnerability Today, I was sitting with my partner, and he called out to me, saying “Come here Nikki I need you’’, I went towards him and hugged him from behind. The whole body of my partner sank into mine and he smiled, ‘that smile was…

It is like if we had a keybook to a healthy relationship, will we really use it, have one with ourselves first or just keep applying it to our relationships with others. Because we need to first understand the paper and reality of paper and what it needs and wants and what it can take…

We think that the child will learn what relations are once they are older. But little do we know that if they are learning everything since childhood then they are learning relationships too. This is where relational development comes into picture. The relational development will come into the experience of the child when we even…

When we are born, we are born in relation to everything in the universe, even the universe itself. Your primary relations with your parents or caregivers are something like a fire ignited from two stones which leads to all the other forms of fire in your life. This fire of relating to people that you…